Question of the day! And here’s another one…Do men even care about having a good girl anymore? This concerns me! And here’s why…It gets personal because I’m going to let you in on a little secret about me. I’ve been head over heels for someone who told me I was “too much” for him and in turn he married the lamest bi…. Uh, female in the world! (I was in college people, so don’t bother trying to figure out who the guy is. Lol!) “Too much” meaning, attractive, smart, funny (I like to think), and multitalented! I guess he opted for someone who didn’t have as much going on so he could feel more important…or less insecure! What a dick…thanks for sparing me I guess! Ha!
*bag lady—defined as a homely or sheltered female , lame in social standards, reserved, unopinionated, and unfashionable.
So with that being said….how many of you men prefer a ‘bag lady’ or a ‘bad bitch’? The answer seems like it would be so obvious…’bad bitch’ right! Wrong! MOST men (via my own personal research) feel more comfortable and tend to have a deeper connection with the ‘bag lady’ types. “Those bad girls are used to the attention of many men and often don’t know how to please just one” –anonymous male. On the other hand there are guys who won’t date anything but the ‘bad bitches’! They are well adjusted and often times too arrogant to feel that a woman can outshine or underrate them. Either they know it makes them look good, or they would rather not settle for a more homely looking mate to complete them on their journey through life! Interesting subject right….let me know how you feel about this ‘BootyBoost’…
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There's a HUGE difference between what initially attracts us as men and what keeps us.
"*bag lady—defined as a homely or sheltered female , lame in social standards, reserved, unopinionated, and unfashionable."
All of these seemingly unflattering terms mean absolutely nothing if you're talking about someone who will be a great mother to your children and a partner that will always have your back.
The reason a lot of attractive, high in social standing, opinionated, fashionable women find themselves attracting a lot of men and not keeping them is because what is social standing and fashion going to do to keep a house running smoothly or take care of you when you're sick or comfort you when you're burying a parent.
Nothing
So if a woman's value proposition in terms of her being a "bad bitch" is based on how fly or popular she is, then yeah, no one's really going to be checking for her long term. That said, I've never seen a pretty woman who was a supportive partner and a good person stay single long
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