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Hypothetical Situation: Okay, I cheated! You've been in love with me for almost a year and things have been dope so far. Our friends like each other, you baught me a puppy for my birthday, and your mom thinks I'm a great catch. Yes we both have busy schedules and life has been quite hectic lately, but I have given you NO reason to believe that I am unhappy with in our relationship. However... a month ago we accidentally switched phones (we have the same blackberry) and I was able to see a few questionable bbm mesages from a couple ( TWO different) ex flames. Now, at first I panicked. My heart was beating faster than I could breath and I immediately thought of 3 different ways to kill you and get away with it. (I watch 'Snapped' on the lifetime channel...A LOT) Then, I realized "these are just mesages". Its not like I walked in on you banging my best friend or saw some obscene party photos tagged to you on your facebook page. "Its JUST mesages...right?" This thought ravished my mind for an entire week before I noticed 'hot boy' at the gym I work out at. Tall, beautiful, and a slightly better body than yours! We bump in to each other at the water fountain, and of course the flirting begins. Long story short... a month later I tell you I'm on the rooftop hanging out with friends, when really I'm on 'top' of Him! Lord forgive me...I'm pacing and burning a whole in our rug the next morning when you leave for work, wondering if I should tell you or not. "Or maybe I could just write a post it and leave it on the fridge after I pack all my stuff and runaway". This is horrible, I feel bad about it...but I am able to justify everything because of your BBM's I discovered a while back. You arrive home later in the evening to my face full of tears and I begin to pour my heart out about what I did while placing the blame on you...What do you do? #SeriousQuetion Follow me & Respondwww.twitter.com/KhrystiHill
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Leave. No matter how beautiful our partner is, no matter what the situation is, cheating is cheating. If they're capable to do it once, they're capable to do it again. We must know our own self-worth and know what we deserve, whether men or women. No one deserves to get cheated on, unless we were doing the cheating in the first place.
This is @LocDaBorg ...
I'm sorry, but that's some juvenile, immature behavior. I don't care if you're Khrysti Hill, Tera Thomas, Cristal Steverson, Taneish Leslie or Tierra Burrell (yes, we have mutual friends IRL), if you cheat on me, I'm GOOONE!!! To cheat on me over something as frivolous as the text messages WITHOUT talking to me first about them in a calm and CIVILIZED manner and then go out and cheat on me with the first guy that you find attractive and in OUR home, no less. Sorry, Obviously you think that's cute, so I'm done. There is NOTHING that would make me stay. I'd wish you well and HOPE TO GOD that you don't treat the next guy like you treated me because you got UNJUSTIFIABLY jealous. The next guy might not have my civility and either beat your ass or have his OWN Snapped moment (if you do the same to him). There is NO justification for cheating, from you OR me. I can honestly say I have NEVER cheated in all my life... not even on a TEST! Much less on the woman I was with. There's no HONOR in that. And who's to say when you get that rocky feeling again b/c you think something I did was questionable (keep in mind I NEVER did anything untoward our relationship nor disrespected you) that you won't do it again? I am NOT taking that chance with someone THAT unstable.
Put it like this: YOU would leave ME over the same thing, right?
I've been cheated on for NO reason before.. so I feel passionate about this. I don't cheat (Proud Leo) and I was STRONGLY tempted too! So that's why the long post.
Hope you follow me on Twitter... if not, I'll still follow you. I like your tweets.
I appreciate the shoutout, Khrysti...
One thing I've noticed... NO women have commented. hmm....
the reason the girl did what she did is wrong, but you never know what you will do until you are faced with that situation. What if you have kids? do you ruin their lives? if you have time, money, investments etc...with this person do you just liquidate etc....I am not sure of the answers, but i know my reaction at 20 would be different than my reaction at 40. Dont judge until you walk that line
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